The Pocket
Eight Principles for Dark Times (Simple wisdom with contradictions intact)
These are weird times, getting weirder by the minute. These principles might get you staying human when the world seems hell-bent on becoming inhuman. They’re about choosing adulthood in a time of collective tantrum.
The Culture You Carry (Or, shaping the invisible operating system of our own lives)
This is what culture is: not just what an organization does, but what you practice every day until it becomes your way of being.
If Your Emotions Could Talk (And you actually listened)
Emotions are embodied. They’re not abstract concepts, but physical experiences meant to be noticed. When you learn to pause and feel the body, emotions transform from chaos into clarity.
Slow Down, or Soldier On (Where Resistance Meets Revolution)
Feeling some deep resistance? That could be a calling that you’re on the verge of something magnificent.
There Is No Easy Fix, … Until There Is (The Danger of Attaching to (and Missing) the Silver Bullet)
Use a tool as needed, not as a rigid rule, or blanket solution. Discernment is key. Knowing when to apply a tool is more crucial than knowing how to use it. To increase discernment is to practice self-reflection enough to be dangerous.
Make It Sinful (Reclaiming Your Solace in a Mad, Mad World)
By reframing our "sins," we tap into that inherent human desire for a little transgression. We unleash the inner rebel, directing it toward habits that truly serve us. We make self-improvement a thrilling, almost illicit, adventure.
Tiny Wonders & Bold Moves (What we suffer when we lose the forest for the timber)
Some of the greatest achievements are the result of tiny, nearly imperceptible, accumulated wonders, as much as they are the result of lightning-strike moments.
What Is The Medicine? (A Simple Question to Reframe Challenges as Fodder for Growth)
Cures, learning and wisdom don’t often come via easy experiences. When they pinch, when they gut, when they rug-pull, it’s best to brace, breathe, get steady, and find solid ground… and then ask, what is the medicine?
The Outsized Impact of Small Choices
To create the system that becomes a way of being, we must entrain our bodies, minds, spirits, and will in unison towards the goal. This is the golden thread of Integral® coaching and the philosophy of change that wins every time.
What If Stress is Not a Given? (Tactics to Rewrite the Story You Tell Yourself About Stress)
When I’m stressed, I find it’s more challenging than normal to reach for these free, simple practices that support, de-stress, and rejuvenate. Having them as a grab-bag list might help in such moments.
Nine Unconventional Pieces of Advice (...that Most People Ignore)
Heretical truths that make waves in the meaning you make of your day.
What Is Your Ready Stance? (When You're Running a Rapid-Fire Game)
So in your big endeavor, what is your ready stance? How do you know you're in it? What feats of inner and outer hardiness does it enable in you? How is it ushering you to your success?