
The Pocket
Six More Heretical Truths (To Break the Spell of Default Convention Wisdom)
In a world of bumper-sticker slogans and theoretical clichés, “heresies” as I call them pierce to the heart of truth and break the spell of default conventional wisdom.
The Invisible Collaborators (and how to invite them to participate)
For all of our most meaningful endeavors, there are invisible collaborators itching to support, … if we only notice and invite their wisdom.
Stuck on the Runway (How perfectionist planning keeps you from taking off)
When you’re stuck on the runway, getting off the ground is the first step. Mapping the terrain beyond is next. Momentum matters more than clarity.
Your body knows things your habit tracker doesn't (Track the body, not the tracker)
Track the body, not the tracker
The Tyranny of the Streak (Your 47-day streak is a prison you built for yourself)
Tracking the streak above all else is a recipe for burnout, and for abandoning yourself.
When 1% Adds Up — But to What? (Marginal Gains for our Meta-Modern Moment)
Personal development is less about mastery, and more about surrendering to the entangled web of self and world.
Five Evergreen Articles That Change How You Live (From Productive to Purposeful)
Rare treasures: five evergreen articles that are expansive cheat codes to living a conscious, fulfilling life.
10 Decision-Making Frameworks (To Give You More Confidence at Life's Crossroads)
These beautiful frameworks aren't abstract theories dreamed up in academic towers. They're battle-tested approaches that have guided real decisions with real consequences for individuals and organizations.
Six Heretical Truths I Wish I'd Learned Earlier in Life (Or, the Joy and Discomfort of Questioning Inherited Wisdom)
In a culture obsessed with optimization and certainty, these principles invite us into the discomfort of questioning inherited wisdom. And it's precisely in that questioning where both growth and authentic joy become possible.
The Neuroscience of Connection (Six (Self-)Parenting Wisdom Frameworks for Modern Times)
These frameworks aren't just parenting techniques — they're human connection principles based on how our brains actually work. The beauty is that they apply everywhere, from boardrooms to bedtime stories, from client meetings to playground conflicts, and perhaps most powerfully, to the ongoing relationship we have with ourselves.
12 Ways to Rewire Your Brain: Beyond the Surface (A journey into the deeper dimensions of neuroplasticity)
The science is clear: our brains are malleable, constantly reshaping themselves based on our thoughts, experiences, and practices. But what does this malleability mean for our full humanity? Let's dive beneath the surface of these 12 principles…
The Knowledge Matrix (How Matter, Readwise & Roam Research Changed My Intellectual Life)
Many years ago I started experimenting with a three-part knowledge system that's become something of a sanctuary for my intellectual life — a place where ideas don't just flow through me, but actually stick, connect, and transform into something new. It's a system that feels alive, growing more valuable with each passing day.
A System Is What A System Does (Tools and Frameworks for Impacting “Broken” Systems)
This systems lens changes how we approach seemingly intractable problems. When we understand that systems aren't broken but functioning exactly as designed, we gain the clarity to identify high-leverage intervention points and create lasting change.
Using AI to Create Your Personal Virtual Advisory Group (A How-To Guide for putting experts in your pocket)
Tapping a custom set of virtual always-on advisors through this AI container is exponential, dynamic, and profoundly impactful. It’s not a silver bullet, but it’s a guide and sounding board on the lonely road to redemption.
The Alchemical Last 20% (Where Grit Meets Magic)
Completing that final 20% of any big project or undertaking isn't just about finishing; it's about transformation. It's where we discover our true strength, align with our purpose, and invite the magic of creation into our lives.
Slow Down, or Soldier On (Where Resistance Meets Revolution)
Feeling some deep resistance? That could be a calling that you’re on the verge of something magnificent.
There Is No Easy Fix, … Until There Is (The Danger of Attaching to (and Missing) the Silver Bullet)
Use a tool as needed, not as a rigid rule, or blanket solution. Discernment is key. Knowing when to apply a tool is more crucial than knowing how to use it. To increase discernment is to practice self-reflection enough to be dangerous.
Make It Sinful (Reclaiming Your Solace in a Mad, Mad World)
By reframing our "sins," we tap into that inherent human desire for a little transgression. We unleash the inner rebel, directing it toward habits that truly serve us. We make self-improvement a thrilling, almost illicit, adventure.
Tiny Wonders & Bold Moves (What we suffer when we lose the forest for the timber)
Some of the greatest achievements are the result of tiny, nearly imperceptible, accumulated wonders, as much as they are the result of lightning-strike moments.
What Is The Medicine? (A Simple Question to Reframe Challenges as Fodder for Growth)
Cures, learning and wisdom don’t often come via easy experiences. When they pinch, when they gut, when they rug-pull, it’s best to brace, breathe, get steady, and find solid ground… and then ask, what is the medicine?